Hard Work For Food

Every people struggle hard to survive. In other words, every people work hard to fulfill his/her requirements and family member’s requirements. Every day we see so many people do work as per their abilities. Among them some get little amount, gives only daily food. Then Next day, again start with ZERO.

I have an incident, describe the same interesting thing.

They were summer days. In India, there is summer vacation in schools. Every student gets result and prepare for new class. We have 6-7 children in our society. All are in same school. One summer day was result day. All children went to school with parents. All got nice grades in their respective classes. One girl got First rank in her class. By gaining good result, one couple gave a nice lunch party at their home. All children were invited and were right on time. Unfortunately, the couple was not having any child. By giving these kinds of parties, they feel blessed. Woman made so tasty food for children.  Man gets every day green food like cabbage, tomato, cucumber, etc… (Diet Food…). But on this special day, he’ll also get some tasty food. So he took leave on that day in office.

While eating and enjoying with children, man prepared his dish with lots of food. But there is a little boy who was confused that what to take and what not from so many tasty dishes. Woman got the point of man that he’s enjoying this and remembered that green food. She agreed man to give his dish to that little boy. At that time he was arguing to have tasty food because he was bored to eat diet food every day. He argued and requested so many times. After too much arguments, woman ready to give him tasty food. At that time he refused and told a good thing which is a valuable thing.

He said: “Dear wife and children, there is no happiness in easily getting food. Actually, I was arguing because a person can only understand the value of food when he survives to get it. Also here I was enjoying, the argument with my wife as she cares about my health. This is Love. Remember children, this is reward for getting good grades in exam. You guys studied hard for these grades. Not only in school but after school, you guys have to work hard to survive. After that survive you will feel happiness in every morsel. So enjoy the tasty food. And I’ll have the cucumber. Lol …..”

So every person works hard for food. If not, then he will struggle a lot.

God bless everyone. “No one sleeps with empty stomach.” This is my wish.


Necessity for Life-Carefree…

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Hello guys, Good Noon…

In today’s world of high tension, Stress, Money, etc. people become CAREFREE. In the race of getting more facilities, people don’t even care for their selves also. High technologies take place of real relationships. Also people become more lazy than early time. Carefree is necessary . This is one side of carefree. Yeah if care in your curiosity, eagerness, love become more then it is danger for that relation. Here people have to be carefree at certain amount. then the other person feel free and relation will remain strong. Also another side of carefree is also dangerous. A person is carefree if he can let go different things which he/she don’t like.

After all its a thing of nature which should not be Too much and Too less. The carefree should be in perfect amount for healthy living and happy living.

Good Wishes all…

–J@ck Jay Katira

Sense of Autonomy

Autonomy means Independence, Freedom. Autonomy means to be free from tied things. things may be some relation, work, job, work etc…

The sense of  Autonomy is important in life. If people take it in right way then a nation can be free from ruled army. Or people can kill himself by wrong use of Autonomy like a boy addicted to so many drugs without knowing his parents.

There are so many stories related to Autonomy/ Freedom/ Independence. Only Some True and pure people have Autonomy. Other can’t have it because it needs full trust on own. If you have trust on yourself then you can be free from all things you want and at any time.Actually Autonomy means not only freedom but also Engage. As you are free from some work then you are ruling a smart and great things with you, but you are engage from one work to another.

Mahatma Gandhiji (our Father of the Nation-India) Said that “Freedom is not worth having if it does not cannot freedom to err.” Means it is not worth it if there is no freedom or Autonomy to make mistakes. If people do mistakes then only they can get perfection in their desired work or thing.


If we are satisfied then it is Autonomy,Freedom, Independence.


Be like Water…

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WATER is a priceless thing on Earth , actually more important than anything. The thirst can only be fulfill by water.

Water is Pure in Earth. Every one can be Pure like water. If you are open, free, transparent then no one can hurt you in any way. Be PURE like WATER.

If water flows in a river or stays in sea, it stays in the position where it is place. We can say that water takes the shape of bottle if we fill the bottle with water. It takes the shape of contained thing. So be VERSATILE like WATER. If you go to any place, and have to change our nature and behavior then don’t hesitate. Remember water. Be versatile as per situation.

All we know that water for drinking is less. The resource is being used by us. The resource of WATER reduces day by day. Don’t waste it, jus use it when needed. By this we can have water for long time than calculated time to use resource of WATER.


Save it.

And Have it.

Very Happy Good Morning ALL.

This post in response of Daily Prompt WATER, Photo challenge SPARE and PURE.

–J@ck Jay Katira

Surprise Meet…

yesterday has a STORY…

Yesterday, i was having same busy day. Work in Office, Excited because our product will be shown to the Buyers and Great Engineers and Some IAS, IPS officers. After Lunch our Boss called us, Get whole details about product and start forward to the demo place. Again sitting on my desk, jus scrolling my phone screen and got a notification of whats app.

Are you guys thinking that surprise meeting with a girl?

Notification of a girl?

No, that notification was from a group of Brothers. there are 4 Images, some kind of decoration going on. my brother is typing….

Bhavin(my bro): come at ashish’s home. as soon as possible.

         don’t tell any one its a surprise for Shweta(my sis).

I (Jay): are you already there? when they will come at home?

Bhavin: yes, come fast. Arount 6 pm.

Ashish(my bro): Yes they will come at 6 pm. come fast. today leave early from office.

  Tell them that You become Uncle(Mama). They won’t say no to this.

I: ok i’ll try bro. and try to come as soon as possible. Ok, bbye.

Conversation ended here. actually my cousin(Shweta) blessed with a baby girl two days ago.They were comming back from hospital to home. and my cousins have planned to decorate her room as WELCOME and Great wishes. I was like how to say that i want to go for this moment. I gathered some courage to say this scenario to our sir and told whole thing. Luckily, i got permission to go early.

At 5 pm i left office and direct went to my cousin Ashsih’s home. both cousins were in shock. yeah brother is here. they had decorate most of the room. I helped them for remaining part. Last photos of baby are remain to be clipped to wall.  And…….

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suddenly,Doorbell rang. Other side, cousin sis with a bay,my Uncle and aunt and brother in law and his mother were waiting for door open.  As they came in, shower of roses and balloons  started. They all were surprised and happy too. After some freshness and tea-break, we all sat together. Baby(my cousin) woke up, shaking hand, little eyes are open for while and then closed. This was happen up to 10 minutes. Then we all cousins were  sitting in a row to play with little,cute, adorable ,pretty niece.

Now i was going to take my niece in my lap, and she was staring at me continuously. That feeling was GREAT. Touched to my HEART. i was like to the cloud 9. No other feeling is to have a baby in your hand and she is seeing you.


Really surprise meet that was!!! A surprise meet with little, cute, adorable, lovely Niece. All people should have this kind of feeling. So, how yesterday was changed from regular to precious day.

this is my SURPRISE MEET…

–J@ck Jay Katira



Life is to have… Perfection



Perfection means to be hold at the point where nothing have to be change. without fault, without error, with out flow,etc… but as much as possible.

No person is perfect by born, Every person have to be perfect. Any person has to learn to be perfect. Otherwise success wont see you.

Perfection is never attainable. no one can be perfect. Person can go near it but cant get it. If a person follow the perfection , definitely he/she can catch success. It is like Limit function in Mathematics. In Math, we write( Lim t–>0) means  t is a variable and it will go near to ‘0’ but never become ‘0’.

A great person MAHATMA GANDHI said great lines “A PRINCIPAL is the expression of PERFECTION, And as imperfect beings like us cannot practice PERFECTION, we devise every moment limits of its compromise in PRACTICE.”(Image taken from Lifehack quotes)

So the Limit example was true that we can reach near to PERFECTION but can not be PERFECT.

Perfection comes with experience and experience comes with experiences.

Natural in Emotions


simply means feelings, emotions come from heart, by default or we can say that people have the emotions as per their Nature. Emotions referred to as  the feelings,expressions for proper action.

Five Natural Emotions :

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It is the pain. A person feels the pain when he looses something.It is Natural feeling with broken, unsatisfied, incomplete attachments. It can not be suppressed. If it cant be handled then it leads to depression. Grief is good when a person take as motivation, or a person realize that how life is!!! By this more focus and new goals can be built.


Anger is a person’s most valuable emotion i think. it comes when a person is threatened or insulted , etc… If anger is not handled , leads to violence. If it is handled with care it will become Motivation and become Good one. If we talk about Anger, first of all a negative thinking comes in picture. But Anger can make a man Powerful, Rich, Top of the field. Also it can demotivate a person or make a person to be the  bottom of the field.


This emotion can be found in many persons. This feelings states that i want something which is already having another person. Its kind of WISH. It can cause two kind of situations in life. One is to wish the unfortunate thing and dwelling on destructive, hurtful thoughts. Another is to use it as motivation to earn that thing which is available to another person.


Fear is a emotion when a person feels like unsafe. it is a survival stat of pain or danger. A person in fear may not do any action like a paralyzed person. There is a saying:”Face your FEAR, Live your DREAMS”. Instead of getting paralyzed, conquer your fears and use them to push you beyond your limits. Using this emotion can awaken hidden resources you didn’t even know were there.


It is a feeling arise from a sense of strong affection, attraction , personal bod. It always considered as Positive emotion. A person love another person, pet, work,etc… Love is positive till another person feels safe,cared,loved,happy,etc… If another person feels unsafe or your love hurts someone then it will be negative side. Nevertheless, love is the most powerful of all human emotions, and just like the other four emotions, you can utilize to your advantage.

–J@ck Jay Katira

Struggle- a Painful but Great part of Every One’s LIFE


Every one has different life. Some people have easy life,some have hard life. When a child born, if parents are well settled then  he/she have good life but he/she have to struggle at some point of life like carrier, partner,etc… In other side, if parents are not well settled then he/she have to struggle from childhood but his/her life is more good and satisfied when the time come for settled life.

I am not judging anyone here but as i seen some families, i came to know that at last all is good if people are happy. The point is STRUGGLE. In both kind of families struggle will be there, in early time or late time. It’s not like that well settled people must struggle, but some people face it. Every people struggle in their own life. Not only for starve or earn money, there may be different aspect as per their life. But people face it and get rid of it and have good life.

One example we have, a chain is made connected links made of metal. But when we tied it to some extent,  it will also struggle to tie that thing. It will struggle until we relies it. But it never fails until the force become more than its bearable strength. Be like chain.

Struggle is like TEACHER. It teaches you how to manage the all situations. when we are in some problem at that time the lessons we learnt from struggle came to help you out. Also, struggle will tell you that who believe in you and who don’t. we came to know the true support of family and friends.

This is LIFE and STRUGGLE is a part of it. Don’t loose hope, believe in yourself and do hard word in the time of STRUGGLE. SUCCESS is yours always. No one will get your desired outcome of your efforts, you are the one who will get it ad enjoy it.

I am also in this phase. But Life has its own way, we have to do what we are made for. ALL is Well at the end. God bless you all. Have a nice day…

–J@ck Jay Katira